Well, David got the OK today to return to preschool. There is still the decision to be made about getting adenoids taken out but it is not a rush and we are thinking to do it in May after Gregg is no longer teaching.
Erik complained about his ear yesterday so we had that looked at today and it seems he has wax buildup that did not move with a cleaning in the doctor's office. But with a few days of drops we should be able to get that cleaned.
And we think we are returning to a more normal schedule now this week.
Today we drove to the doctor in bright sunlight and we thanked God. It is rather rare to see the sun like that and we have come out of the season of long dark days now. We could even see it would be a bright day by 6:30 in the morning! We will change to Daylight savings time this weekend so that will change a little...but it will also mean that it is not dark yet at 8pm as long as it is not cloudy that day!
All of this after seeing snow for the last few days :)
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
David's health
Not such good news. Yesterday when we when to the doctor, she listened to his chest and added the diagnosis of bronchitis. He did sound like it when he coughed too. he does not seem to have a fever with all this infection. But in 2 weeks the ear infections have not cleared wtih symptomatic treatment either.
So, antibiotics was the order of the day. And of course discussion about surgery to get the adenoids out... so we don't go through this over and over. And so he does not have additional issues like hearing loss, lack of oxygen causing decreased function of the brain etc.
I consulted with an American Pediatrician here who is volunteering at LCC (teaching anatomy and physiology). Sounds like though it is elective, probably the conditions for choosing surgery are there.
Maybe in April.
So, David is not back in preschool, which keeps Gregg and I running back and forth taking turns working and watching David.
So, antibiotics was the order of the day. And of course discussion about surgery to get the adenoids out... so we don't go through this over and over. And so he does not have additional issues like hearing loss, lack of oxygen causing decreased function of the brain etc.
I consulted with an American Pediatrician here who is volunteering at LCC (teaching anatomy and physiology). Sounds like though it is elective, probably the conditions for choosing surgery are there.
Maybe in April.
So, David is not back in preschool, which keeps Gregg and I running back and forth taking turns working and watching David.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
going out as a family again
We have had another week of sickness, but by Friday the doctor was saying, get out in the fresh air on the warmer days, so we did! We took the ferry and walked a ways to the delfinarium for the first live dolphin show the boys have seen.(Of course warmer in Lithuania in march is a relative thing, thus we are rather bundled up)
Also see: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=40ga0PCciVo for a video on the ferry.
On Friday we had a visit to the ENT speciallist. David has enlarged adenoid tissue at the back of the throat and nose. Unless he gets surgery we will have ongoing colds and the like and eventual loss of hearing we are told. Don't know others with experience in this procedure though I know it is sort of common too for kids. Anyone with experience is welcome to encourage or inform! He has to get over the current cold and bilateral ear infections first.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
He's really 4!!
David's birthday was this week. I have to admit these pictures do make his look closer to 4 than how I often think of him! He helped pick a cake at the store, with fun looking bees on top. Inside it was layered (all cakes here seem to be multiple layered) and once he got to the part with plums, he kind of gave up on the cake ;)
We also did the local tradition of lifting the birthday person on a chair for the number of years of the birthday. At this size Erik was able to help and I could get a picture!
David and Erik were blessed with gifts from family members in the states as well as the things we got so they had quite a time of opening gifts. Later in the evening as David thought about it (I guess we were looking at pictures I downloaded to the computer already) David asked- where is the tree?
Well, at least there is some brightness to this week, excitement over the new things. The boys did not really know we were planning a road trip for a few days. But our health is not up for that so we are at home for the LCC break week.
Took David to the doctor today and got a referral to the ear nose throat doctor and we go on Friday. David gets quite frequent colds so I hope to understand a little better after this how to help him the best.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Uh- oh! Sick again
Lithuanian winter seems to get me most every year. And the last 2 years worse than before. (this from someone who barely had a sick day every 2-3 years in the USA)
Not much energy to tell the whole story, but we are all fighting something. David and I have it in the throat and 1 ear. And Gregg and Erik are fighting off symptoms with occasional complaints and need for a little more rest.
I invited our Landlord who is also a doctor to look at me again and she imagines it is a step away from Strep throat. So if half liter gargles with salt water don't do the trick by tomorrow, it is on to antibiotics again. :(
We were hoping to take a few days and go to Vilnius this next week - partly for a church conference and partly for a little vacation while LCC has spring break. But all of that seems unlikely now- at least for me.
Not much energy to tell the whole story, but we are all fighting something. David and I have it in the throat and 1 ear. And Gregg and Erik are fighting off symptoms with occasional complaints and need for a little more rest.
I invited our Landlord who is also a doctor to look at me again and she imagines it is a step away from Strep throat. So if half liter gargles with salt water don't do the trick by tomorrow, it is on to antibiotics again. :(
We were hoping to take a few days and go to Vilnius this next week - partly for a church conference and partly for a little vacation while LCC has spring break. But all of that seems unlikely now- at least for me.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
a different perspective
Today we visited a local child psychologist with the goal to see what resources are available for counseling when dealing with complicated behavior patterns. We also wanted to get an opinion on whether having the boys in full day preschool is in their best interest or if a half day would actually be better.
The psychologist was a nice woman, very knowledgeable about normal child development and able to explain some foundational things that were helpful or that confirmed what we are doing.
She also had toys for the boys to play while we talked and she talked with them a little at the beginning and then was observing as we talked. From her perspective, from what she saw in one visit, the boys are behaving normally for their ages.
She did not have background in adoption issues, awareness of fetal alcohol syndrome, and perhaps not even attachment disorder. All these things are a well worn path for us by now and we anticipate many psychologists in the US would be very familiar with them.
We are welcome to come back in a few weeks and she will interact with the boys further and respond to any specific questions we may have about their behavior.
Regarding the preschool she did say that as a psychologist she has to say that the Lithuanian preschool system is not good for children for a full day. There is not enough space, not sufficient caregiver to child ratio, and children become stressed from being in that system. They can get what they need from preschool in the half days. (This has been our growing suspicion)
On a totally different note-
We have uploaded a fun video from today where the boys are playing Candy Land, a game that was just sent to us in the mail! you will find it at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-w0Jj6Gui4
The psychologist was a nice woman, very knowledgeable about normal child development and able to explain some foundational things that were helpful or that confirmed what we are doing.
She also had toys for the boys to play while we talked and she talked with them a little at the beginning and then was observing as we talked. From her perspective, from what she saw in one visit, the boys are behaving normally for their ages.
She did not have background in adoption issues, awareness of fetal alcohol syndrome, and perhaps not even attachment disorder. All these things are a well worn path for us by now and we anticipate many psychologists in the US would be very familiar with them.
We are welcome to come back in a few weeks and she will interact with the boys further and respond to any specific questions we may have about their behavior.
Regarding the preschool she did say that as a psychologist she has to say that the Lithuanian preschool system is not good for children for a full day. There is not enough space, not sufficient caregiver to child ratio, and children become stressed from being in that system. They can get what they need from preschool in the half days. (This has been our growing suspicion)
On a totally different note-
We have uploaded a fun video from today where the boys are playing Candy Land, a game that was just sent to us in the mail! you will find it at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-w0Jj6Gui4
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Spring might be coming
The days are certainly longer- in terms of light. It really is nice for it to be light by 7:30 in the morning now. And no longer dark at 5pm.
We are also over our various colds and bronchitis and back to a more normal schedule. David is coughing a bit so a cold is not necessarily far away. But we hope for the best.
On Friday we planted seeds in styrofoam egg cartons to see if we can eventually turn our balcony into a bit of a greenhouse. We have hopes for tomatoes, cucumbers, parsley and spinach... time will tell. The was a project for the boys, but of course it was mama's idea and mama will have to "raise" the plants.
It has been nice to hear that Erik is doing well in his preschool class. Some who met our boys this summer might be surprised to hear that he is a rather compliant child and observant to follow the teachers' instructions without being told a second time. The teachers think his socialization is fine as well. Erik tells a different story though- that he has no friends and he does not want friends. We are not sure what to make of that.
We are starting to think it could be good for Erik not to be in preschool full days since it is not really a full day educational program. They lay on cots for 3 hours in the afternoon! On Friday I took him out to try bowling. Perhaps he is still a little young judging by his attention for that, but we saw other children smaller than he bowling!
David on the other hand is continuing to test the patience of his teachers and apparently is rather demanding when playing with the other children. Somehow this sounds like Erik a year ago. His teachers find that confronting David especially if it needs to be repeatedly causes his exceptional will to flare up. And sometimes they get a good result by reminding him he can be a good boy. David still has evidence of some developmental delay in a few areas too. And we sort of expect this. We will look forward to not buying disposable diapers that are put to good use every night -when that day comes. Unfortunately, conditions for his development while in the womb were such that he will continue to experience challenges in some areas of development for quite a while. He is not going to fit the cookie cutter expectations of most teachers here. But, there are some things that he does well for his age as well. That makes his harder not to expect that he "shape up".
We have one more week of classes at LCC and then the spring break comes when Gregg has the week off. Lithuanian Restoration of independence day comes in that week too so that is a holiday for everyone on that Wednesday. some other LCC families we know are heading to Egypt for that vacation week. But that is quite far from our minds- does not sound restful with two active boys who are overstimulated by new things!
We are also over our various colds and bronchitis and back to a more normal schedule. David is coughing a bit so a cold is not necessarily far away. But we hope for the best.
On Friday we planted seeds in styrofoam egg cartons to see if we can eventually turn our balcony into a bit of a greenhouse. We have hopes for tomatoes, cucumbers, parsley and spinach... time will tell. The was a project for the boys, but of course it was mama's idea and mama will have to "raise" the plants.
It has been nice to hear that Erik is doing well in his preschool class. Some who met our boys this summer might be surprised to hear that he is a rather compliant child and observant to follow the teachers' instructions without being told a second time. The teachers think his socialization is fine as well. Erik tells a different story though- that he has no friends and he does not want friends. We are not sure what to make of that.
We are starting to think it could be good for Erik not to be in preschool full days since it is not really a full day educational program. They lay on cots for 3 hours in the afternoon! On Friday I took him out to try bowling. Perhaps he is still a little young judging by his attention for that, but we saw other children smaller than he bowling!
David on the other hand is continuing to test the patience of his teachers and apparently is rather demanding when playing with the other children. Somehow this sounds like Erik a year ago. His teachers find that confronting David especially if it needs to be repeatedly causes his exceptional will to flare up. And sometimes they get a good result by reminding him he can be a good boy. David still has evidence of some developmental delay in a few areas too. And we sort of expect this. We will look forward to not buying disposable diapers that are put to good use every night -when that day comes. Unfortunately, conditions for his development while in the womb were such that he will continue to experience challenges in some areas of development for quite a while. He is not going to fit the cookie cutter expectations of most teachers here. But, there are some things that he does well for his age as well. That makes his harder not to expect that he "shape up".
We have one more week of classes at LCC and then the spring break comes when Gregg has the week off. Lithuanian Restoration of independence day comes in that week too so that is a holiday for everyone on that Wednesday. some other LCC families we know are heading to Egypt for that vacation week. But that is quite far from our minds- does not sound restful with two active boys who are overstimulated by new things!
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